Better to write for yourself and have no public, than to write for the public and have no self. Cyril Connolly (1903 - 1974)


Replenishment is good for a mama's soul..

Today was wonderful. I'm so glad I am alive and that I seized the day despite being chronically late. I'm always late. I hate being late and get anxiety attacks about being late and still I end up being late. I try to compensate by waking up two or three hours earlier than the time to leave and STILL I end up being late.

I think that maybe it has something to do with my culture. We are usually late and if people catch on to that right quick they know to tell us to come an hour ahead of time so that we'll actually be on time. Of course that's no excuse. Sigh.

My husband does not like to be late and we've had our hot words and hurt about this issue about me, and I have tried. I try especially for his sake, but fail miserably. It would help if he does help me along. Maybe he'll learn soon to give me extra time and to also give me a hand.

However this is not about being late really...well sorta.

Sunday worship begins at 11:15am. We have to leave by 10:30am or so to drive the 30 plus (depending on traffic and lights) minutes to get there on time.

Each night I plan in my head what I'll do and how soon I'll wake up. The kids clothes are already picked out so I'm not doing the chicken-without-head run around the house. Breakfast, grooming and return trip snacks are all thought out and easy to grab.

Today I woke at 10:24am!!!!! Nooooooooooooooooo! I was so exhausted that the 3 rings of the alarm did not even penetrate my sleep. I laid there thinking that I wouldn't have time to get everyone ready, make breakfast etc so I'll just not go, or that when the husband awakes, he can go alone since he can get ready in five, or if I can get the kids ready in time to go with him....

Then I thought to myself, I'm getting ready in 30mins and we are leaving with 15 minutes to get to service and if we missed the praise and worship, so be it, but at least we'd hear the message. We are going!

We got there in the middle of praise and worship. I seized the day. The kids went happily off to play with their friends.
I figured I couldn't tell God that I just didn't feel pretty enough to show up or that my hair wouldn't tame or the many excuses that quickly comes forth.

The message was awesome! Monday evening I was reading a book about the very same message. It made me cry. It gave me something I needed. It refreshed my spirit.

It was truly a lovely family time. After service we came home and we all had wonderful fun outside playing ball, frisbee etc. It was so good to hear the pure laughter in each others soul come out so sweetly. This is one of those days you want repeated and ends with ice cream :)

I guess I can get ready in 5...ok 10...alright, alright. 30+5 :)

And so I'll share it with you:

The Power of a moment makes it a source of immeasurable opportunity and hope. No matter what kind of life you've lived, no matter how many wrong choices you've made, the next moment is waiting to give birth to new life.

Perhaps no one illustrates this better than a woman named Rahab found in the book of Joshua. She was a resident of Jericho during the time when Joshua was the leader of Israel. Jericho would soon fall into the hands of God's people. To prepare for their conquest, Joshua sent two spies into the city, and they stayed in the house of Rahab. All the Scriptures tell us about Rahab before this point is that she was a prostitute. That was the sum total of her life. If you've ever observed the life of a prostitute, you would know the word life is an overstatement. Existence, torment, punishment, living dead - all are better descriptions of the waking hours in the life of a prostitute.

What nightmares could possible haunt her dreams that would over-shadow the nightmare that comes when she is awake? yet in one moment Rahab's life changed forever.

She had heard of the God of Israel. In her own words, she was convinced that "the Lord your God is God in heave above and on the earth below" (Josh. 2:11). Based on that conviction, she offered to help them if they would save her life and the lives of her family members.

The spies agreed and instructed her to tie the scarlet cord in her window. If she did that, all of her family who were with her in her house would be saved. The story tells us, "Joshua spared Rahab the prostitute, with her family and all who belonged to her, because she hid the men Joshua had sent as spies to Jericho - and she lives among the Israelites to this day" (Josh. 6:25).

The family that Rahab saved was not her husband or her children. Those are relationships rarely known in the world of a prostitute. She had no husband or children. She saved the lives of her father and mother, her brothers and sisters, and all who belonged to them. In truth, she had no one who belonged to her.

The questions that occur to me are: Where was her family while she was living the life of a prostitute? Where were her father and mother when she needed guidance and direction? Why didn't her brothers and sisters rise up to help her and save her from the life of decadence and destruction? And how could the heart of a prostitute that should have long gone cold still be filled with such compassion for the family she left behind? Surely the only future she was saving was theirs. What kind of future did she really have to save anyway?

Yet we find in this moment not a future saved, but a future created. Rahab found more than protection among the people of God. She found a new family. We are informed later that Rahab married an Israelite.

Rahab married a man named Salmon, whose son was Boaz, the husband of Ruth, whose son was Obed, whose son was Jesse, whose son was David, king of Israel.

And if you follow the lineage far enough, you find that the blood of Rahab flowed in the veins of Joseph, the husband of Mary, the mother of Jesus. The prostitute Rahab, in one defining moment, through one life-altering decision, began a journey that brought her everything she had lost and more than she ever could have imagined. Like Rahab, we are always just one choice from a different life. At our worst, good is only one decision away.

From the book Chasing Daylight by Erwin Raphael McManus

I shared the part in this book because I don't have a way to share our sermon CD which was a lot better I think.

So it doesn't matter where you are in are precious, wonderful, and full of potential....and you are loved. Yes you are. Don't dismiss it. Stop and think about it a bit. You are here now because you are supposed to be. You are important for this time. Grab it with all your might because soon we all will get out own little dash....xxxx - xxxx.


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This Is Water

“Learning how to think” really means learning how to exercise some control over how and what you think. It means being conscious and aware enough to choose what you pay attention to and to choose how you construct meaning from experience. Because if you cannot or, will not, exercise this kind of choice in adult life, you will be totally hosed."

That's a quote from This is Water: Some Thoughts, Delivered on a Significant Occasion, about Living a Compassionate Life by David Foster Wallace.
This is from a 2005 speech to the graduating class of Kenyon College. He reminded them that a Liberal Arts education is meant to teach one how to think. It was the only such address he ever made.

I received a copy of this book to review and I love the way it's written in short little paragraphs on each page, which made it so easy to read and savor and ponder. It's a very small, almost pocket-sized book which I think would make a great gift to anyone. You will find yourself wanting to read it over again and to share. This book so short and sweet, make you stop and review your path in this life journey which we all need to do constantly to ensure we aren’t just following along like zombies but making an effort to live fully and compassionately.
David Foster Wallace moved to Claremont, CA in 2002 to become the first Roy E. Disney Professor of Creative Writing and Professor of English at Pomona College. He was best known for his 1996 novel Infinite Jest, which TIME included in its All-Time 100 Greatest Novels list (covering the period 1923–2006)

He struggled with depression for years and committed suicide in 2008.

Pick up a copy today because it's worth the read. Consider it a gift to yourself. This is Water...

My review copy was provided by Little, Brown and Company is a division of Hachette Book Group, Inc. The Little, Brown name and logo are trademarks of Hachette Book Group, Inc.

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A new and better way to do laundry - Purex Complete 3-in-1 Laundry Sheets Review

Purex Complete 3-in-1 Laundry Sheets

I received a packet of the Purex Complete 3-in-1 laundry sheets to try out and have been doing so the past few weeks. To be honest I was very skeptical that one single sheet of material could do a whole laundry cycle!

It is just one sheet that has laundry detergent, fabric softener and anti-static all in one. You throw the sheet in your washing machine (no measuring of liquids or scooping up powder), turn the water on and then throw your clothes in. After your wash is done rinse and all, you put both clothes and laundry sheet into the dryer and that's that.

It works fabulously.

This must take over the market like storm! I am for anything that will make laundry easier since I’m the only one in this house who knows that the buttons work as they are supposed to on the machines sitting in the corner in that part of the house titled ‘danger – laundry room: only mothers are supposed to enter.’

Imagine what this will mean for people (especially men) who have to lug their clothes to the laundromat. No more heavy bottles! I can hear people jumping in glee already.

I can’t wait to try out the other scents. Gosh I can't wait to blab to all my friends and family!

I also love how soft my laundry came out! I’m totally in love with this product and surely will be purchasing this for our family. We might just switch all together. I mean just imagine how much easier life will be in regards to saving time and money in doing laundry! Now if only someone will come up with a folding system all on it’s own!

Before my wash:
After my wash and before rinse:
I even get use for the sheets after they are used in the dryer. I use the sheet to help clean out the lint trap instead of paper towels or when lazy using my nails to scrape it away :)

This will definitely be life changing for families all around.

Below is some great information about the product and do not forget to check out Purex website.


What is Purex® Complete 3-in-1™ Laundry Sheets?
Purex® Complete 3-in-1™ Laundry Sheets are a load’s worth of detergent, softener and anti-static all in one powerful sheet.

How Does It Work?
Simply drop laundry sheet into washer, the detergent is released during the wash cycle. Once wash is complete, transfer the laundry sheet with clothes to dryer. The stripe is heat activated by the dryer to soften and remove static. It’s that simple.

Why Is It Better?
Simplifying the process. Say goodbye to separate products, measuring, bulky bottles, spills, and messes. Purex® Complete 3-in-1™ Laundry Sheets are the trouble-free alternative to using multiple laundry products, like traditional liquids and powders.

Other available scents are Spring Oasis, Tropical Escape and Pure & Clean.

Size & Sheets
Purex® Complete 3-in-1™ Starter Kits | 20 Sheets
Purex® Complete 3-in-1™ Refills | 24 Sheets

Check our Purex website for more products and more information on Purex Complete 3-in-1

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My Life In Pictures - Flashback Thursday

A blog friend, Meg from My Edition Of Gab is having a week long fun event of my life in pictures. It's a very interesting and you should go check out her blog and participate.

Today's heading is Flashback Thursday - bring a photo back from the past. I'd love to include this into ATWT also.

That's me at nine months preggo in 2005. SIL came to visit from Alaska to help but baby was late a whole week and she thought this ball would help and walking and eat etc...nothing did. I was induced.

And then my son was born. (Daddy looking on anxiously)

Bringing him to mommy's room after being checked out and cleaned.
Oh yea he was a chunker :)

And in a few days he'll be four! Oy! He is already taller than most six year olds.

For more check out...

And for more Thousand words Thursday, check out The mom Jen @ Cheaper than therapy Cheaper Than Therapy
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Mother's Day Gift Guide


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Happy Mother's Day discount, giveaways, party and more...

Happy Mother's Day to all you lovely friends. I hope that just for a moment you'll have some time to yourselves to be replenished and pampered. If only for a day right?...a moment? hour? ...just hide in the bathroom for a bit. It's a legitimate excuse :)

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Happy Mother's Day

It's 2:00 a.m. and your three month old is crying...a lot. You're a first time mother, and while you've got a ton of questions, you called your mom at 2:00 in the morning last night about that crazy looking diaper, so you'd really like to get through this one on your own.

But where can you turn?

Mamapedia is a new site that takes the wisdom of thousands and thousands of moms and makes is searchable! You can head to the computer with that screaming infant in your arms and type,

"Why does my baby cry so much at night?"
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To launch this new mom resource, the Momfluence network and Resourceful Mommy are throwing a party. Join us on Twitter this Friday, May 8th, from 9:00 to 10:00 p.m. eastern time along with mom experts in a variety of parenting areas: multiples, kid crafting, health and safety, potty training, home schooling and more!

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Giant-Sized Obstacles: Esther and Her People

Giant-Sized Obstacles: Esther and Her People

Yet who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?
Esther 4:14

In the introduction of the book Thirteen Days, former Secretary of Defense Robert S. McNamara wrote of the pressure felt inside the White House during the 1962 Cuban Missile Crisis. He called it "a period of the most intense strain I have ever operated under." 

Queen Esther could have said the same during the royal crisis that jeopardized her life and the lives of Jewish people everywhere during the days of the Persian Empire. Out of nowhere, a giant crisis emerged that put her under the most intense strain she had ever operated under. Her one assurance, relayed to her by Mordecai, was that God had anticipated this giant in advance; and, in His providence, had placed her on the throne to deal with it.

Sometimes we find ourselves in a period of intense strain. It's important to remember that God has anticipated it, and He has prepared us "for such a time as this." He will give strength for the strain and wisdom for the crisis.

When God can do what He will with a man, the man may do what he will with the world.
George MacDonald

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